dude
you had the chillins, now you get to pay, until all of them get to be 18. it sucks. but that is the way it is. stop paying it, and you go to jail. nothing makes a bigger statement than you being led into a courtroom in handcuffs shackled to your waist, and tied to your leg irons. seen several treated that way.
otherwise all of the rest of us get to pay for your kids. and i dont see the fairness of that approach? we did not have the fun, so why should we have to pay for your kids.
my suggestion is not to get too kid happy with your new wife. you never know.
as for your plight, we have several drivers in our center that are in the same boat as you. one has all but one kid paid for, just three more years on the daughter. it is a long struggle.
you better learn how to deal with it, cause court, when it comes to child support, is not equal or fair to the fathers. in their court, you are guilty until you can prove you are not, and even then you are mostly still guilty.
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Whoa, whoa WHOA!!!!!
Back up - I NEVER said, and NEVER meant to imply that I did not wish to pay child support. In NJ / PA, all payments go thru Child Support / Probation department, and, as I was previously self-employed, the courts have wanted to attach my wages for the past 10 years.
I was the one who called Child Support / Probation, I was the one who told them where I worked, who to contact to attach my wages. I did so because I thought that 60% was the max they could take.
I would pay $3000 / week to my three kids from my first marriage if I could. 10X that if I could. Not at ALL complaining about supporting my kids. I just need a way to support them all equally.
6 or so years ago, my support was set at over $800 PER WEEK. Impossible. I still hold the record as being the most arrested man in New Jersey - yet the courts would not lower it.
I filed a ProSe motion to reduce support, to be heard on November 21st. Now that I have a paycheck from someone else (not self employed) it will be the first time my support will be set reasonably since I seperated from my wife.
I apologize for sounding angry on this subject - I'm not - I just want it to be very clear - I would pay every dime I had for support, as long as I could still survive on what is left. $40/week does not even pay for the gas to get me to work.
Now, regarding full-time/part time, read what I said above. That is all I know.