More than flirting....

[over9five]

Ok, so what happened to the OP? Just saying.

Laughing his/her ass off at all the gullibles who believed this!

 

[laffter]

Ok, so what happened to the OP? Just saying.

She's probably busy banging the driver.






Too soon?

 

[bleedinbrown58]

Ok, so what happened to the OP? Just saying.

Perhaps she's off... boiling a rabbit...lol

 

[Catatonic]

I am now thinking any future orders I place I will have sent to a friend's house or I may quit shopping all together. He really disgusts me!

Remember ... All men is scum!

 

[oldngray]

Perhaps she's off... boiling a rabbit...lol

or shaking her kitty?

 

[bleedinbrown58]

or shaking her kitty?
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You mean...shaking the cobwebs off her kitty?

 

[over9five]

Perhaps she's off... boiling a rabbit...lol

That right there was funny, I don't care who you are!

 

[bleedinbrown58]

That right there was funny, I don't care who you are!

Damn right it was....I'm the second funniest person I know....lol.

 

[anonymous6]

I think its unfair that people are slamming the OP. she came here with a legitimate concern and maybe , just maybe she sent out the wrong vibes without knowing it.

but that doesn't excuse the drivers unprofessional behavior.

 

[oldngray]

I think its unfair that people are slamming the OP. she came here with a legitimate concern and maybe , just maybe she sent out the wrong vibes without knowing it.

but that doesn't excuse the drivers unprofessional behavior.

of course it does. We don't get paid to post so we retain our amateur status. Not professionals here.

 

[bleedinbrown58]

I think its unfair that people are slamming the OP. she came here with a legitimate concern and maybe , just maybe she sent out the wrong vibes without knowing it.

but that doesn't excuse the drivers unprofessional behavior.

Driver played her and that was wrong. And perhaps I send out the "wrong vibes" when I order chow mein...and answer the door wearing my kneepads and bib...lol. Ya never know....

 

[ORLY!?!]

Perhaps she sould order with Fedex nextime?

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

Perhaps sh sould order with Fedex nextime?

Im sure their are a few fedex drivers, that like to make inside deliveries!

 

[The Other Side]

Hello,
I guess I'm writing this here because I want your point of view....
I am widowed, live alone and get packages sent to me regularly. I pretty upset to find out that my UPS driver that has been flirting, sexting, and trying to get me to have sex with him is in fact married with a lovely wife and beautiful year old baby.
J (not his full name) has been delivering my packages via UPS for about three years, he has worked for UPS as a driver for nearly 15 years. I have always had polite and general conversation with him, and once about two years ago I asked him to come in for a cup of hot tea. He accepted and we chit-chatted and he left. I did not think anything of it, after all I am at least 15 years older than him! On the few occasions since then we have continued to have quick conversations when he has made a delivery, he told me about his divorce and how he had full custody of his son because his wife never wanted him, and she left him, his divorce was final last April.
About a six weeks ago, during a package delivery he asked me if I got a message he left on a package that he left at the door. I told him no, and didn't ask what the message was. He then told me that he didn't have anywhere to be for Thanksgiving and wrote his phone number on my current package, I felt badly for him and thought, "surely he is not coming on to me!" I laughed at myself, to have had that thought and decided to text him because after the three years or so I felt he wasn't a stranger and how sad he didn't have somewhere to be on Thanksgiving. Well I guess I couldn't read his writing and the text was not delivered to him. All it said was Happy Thanksgiving J! The next day I had yet another delivery left on my door. Of course I looked to see if J had left me a message and he had! It said, "needed a hug." At the risk of sounding really stupid, I must confess I still didn't really think he was coming on to me, only that he really needed a hug!
About two weeks later he came to my door with another package. He asked if I had gotten his message at first I said no because I really thought his intent was because of feeling sad with the holidays. As he was walking away, I said wait, "the hug?" He said yeah, then turned back around and said I could use one now. So we hugged and he left. I told him I had sent a text and hadn't heard back from him, I showed on my phone and he retexted it to himself with the correct number. I scratched my head and thought that was really weird. A few days later, at about 8pm there was a knock at my door, it was J in his personal vehicle with a package for me. He said I knew you would want this and because of the DOT I couldn't come by in my truck and didn't want you to have to wait till tomorrow so here you go.
He told me he had a crush on me for a long time and brought him how I had invited him for tea and conversations we had. I was shocked. He started texting me at first just implying he wanted more from him... Then he spelled it out...
I have had a 3 other deliveries and we have kissed and he has wanted more but I told him I wasn't ready, he surely has put the pressure on. As naïve as I sound I was figuring this is really bizarre and something is not right and had decided to not pursue a relationship with him..... ( I have not told him)
After coming to this conclusion it came to my attention earlier today that he is number 1 not divorced, and lives with his wife. 2, His wife is kind and a very good person not worthy of his behavior. I literally became ill.
I am now thinking this is some sort of game for him, I was to be a conquest. As I had already decided I had no interest in him that doesn't bother me. What really upsets me is that he is such a pig! How could he risk his job, and family for sex? I have never in my life ever knowingly gone out with a married man as it violates "the woman code" he has put me in a situation I never would have participated in, and I am disgusted by his actions!
All of my friends that I have discussed this with and viewed the racy texts are shocked by these events and have suggested that I call and advise UPS and or advise his innocent wife. Neither of these options are desirable for me. As he has a family, I do not want him to be fired.... 100% of them say they would want to know if their man was sexting and attempting to have an affair.
I am tempted to tell him what a fool he is to throw away what's in front of him with both hands; but don't think it will matter. I just don't know what to do.....

These stories are pure BALONEY. I wouldnt doubt if HOAX puts these stories on this site just for kicks. As for the content, these scenarios are all too common with UPS drivers, however, its simply a case of the "lonely old woman syndrome".

I have PERSONALLY defended such cases and in each case, the lonely old woman says the same thing. "I never led him on", " i feel for his wife" and such. In each case, there was never any merit to these claims.

Our drivers face an army of lonely old women on the routes, and honestly, UPS doesnt do enough to train our drivers to put their egos in check and ignore these "crazed" women.

The content of this post is simply garbage. A fantasy for a woman who is already plagued with her own insecurities. She states "i dont know what to do"...

Really? How about changing your number?

I had a case where a similiar woman made claims that one of our drivers actually groped her at her doorstep. Her story followed similiar patterns as the post here, only a bit more graphic in detail "massaging my chest until i could feel his erection in his pants" and such...

In this case, the facts didnt bear out the way she claimed. She indicated that the driver spent about 20 mins during this encounter, but "sparks" proved that he was only there for 2 mins and 10 seconds and made his next delivery two buildings away to the second floor and aquired a signature verified by the reciever.

These stories, while funny, can actually happen, while I believe this one to be false and completely made up.

How would this woman know to come to site where most UPSers dont even know how to find?

Why would she air out this story if she spoke to "friends"? How much advice does she need?

I'll give you some advice. SHUT UP.

TOS.

 

[The Other Side]

Additionally to the OP.

If you pursue contacting UPS and make a claim that cannot be substantiated. You would open yourself up to liabitlities in civil court. Especially if the driver should be terminated.

Texting is a private conversation, and if the driver used his "personal" phone, and texted in his personal time, then UPS has nothing to do with it.

TOS.

 

[bleedinbrown58]

Im sure their are a few fedex drivers, that like to make inside deliveries!

Be nice if they showered first.....lol

 

[ORLY!?!]

Im sure their are a few fedex drivers, that like to make inside deliveries!

ahhh, most of them are single. And so on...

 

[rod]

Be nice if they showered first.....lol

I have a friend who always says he likes to get his gals first thing in the morning when they are full of pee and have bad breath. He's a real class act.

 

[Anonymous 10]

I have a friend who always says he likes to get his gals first thing in the morning when they are full of pee and have bad breath. He's a real class act.

We need an eww button.

 

[chuchu]

I still want do it , I don't care how old you are or how heavy it is

I will take the compliant for not going in over the driver stole something out of my house

It seems that no two situations are alike but why would a woman woman's invite a driver in for "tea" if she didn't know if he was married or not. That's opening the door for a personal relationship that shouldn't occur. There's too many loose ends in this scenario and no matter what she said....it was what she did (if there is a she) that was over the top.

"Don't touch, leave area, notify wife" will save you a lot of attorney fees and maybe your job.