Father of the Year or child abuse?

[Indecisi0n]

If you listen to the whole video that I posted after, you can tell that the guy is intelligent and applies discipline with love as a parent is supposed to. It’s not reactionary but thought out.

I love me some discipline and love

 

[vantexan]

If you listen to the whole video that I posted after, you can tell that the guy is intelligent and applies discipline with love as a parent is supposed to. It’s not reactionary but thought out.

My dad would've beat the stew out of me. He got the point across without violence.

 

[vantexan]

I don't have a huge problem with the discipline, but it's a little disturbing that the father is all over facebook and youtube bragging about it.

Might give others a good idea.

 

[Brownslave688]

A few years from now when your kid comes home from school crying because some big girls were bullying her see if you feel the same.

I'll tell her to ing pop the girl and stand up for herself

 

[1989]

My parents would have sat down with me and lay it all out

1. You got kicked off the bus

2. You have to go to school

3. Now what are you going to do?

Me: looks like I’m walking

4. You better be on time or you will have another problem.

 

[Operational needs]

I don't have a huge problem with the discipline, but it's a little disturbing that the father is all over facebook and youtube bragging about it.

Yeah. That wasn’t necessary.

 

[Operational needs]

My parents would have sat down with me and lay it all out

1. You got kicked off the bus

2. You have to go to school

3. Now what are you going to do?

Me: looks like I’m walking

4. You better be on time or you will have another problem.

I like that. Teaches you consequences and also problem solving.

 

[Operational needs]

I'll tell her to ing pop the girl and stand up for herself

I was so proud when my sweet, meek daughter got suspended the last day of 6th grade for punching a bully on the bus. Let me know I wouldn’t have to worry about her being a pushover. Lol.

 

[Operational needs]

I love me some discipline and love

You want some, Baby? Lol.

 

[Brownslave688]

Bad analogy. Why have rules in the first place?

I simply mean the no bullying culture is getting out of control.

Bullying is very natural throughout many species. There's a natural pecking order

 

[Brownslave688]

I was so proud when my sweet, meek daughter got suspended the last day of 6th grade for punching a bully on the bus. Let me know I wouldn’t have to worry about her being a pushover. Lol.

An old lady at lowes told me today told me it's so refreshing to see a dad not let his daughter walk all over him.

 

[bbsam]

This is a hard one for me. Because I feel bullying is blown way up now days.

5th grade boys are gonna wrestle they're gonna fight. It's no different than puppies biting and clawing at each other or a chicken trying to figure out where it belongs in the pecking order.

My brother was bullied.

He could now buy the entire town we grew up in if he gave a crap about it.

Pecking order indeed.

 

[bbsam]

An old lady at lowes told me today told me it's so refreshing to see a dad not let his daughter walk all over him.

I’m on the other side.

I gave my son permission to “take things into his own hands”.

He looked at me like I was crazy and said, “I’m not gonna be ineligible for soccer over that!” So I asked him if he wanted me to take it to the principal. He said, “Nah. I’ll do it.”

Imagine how surprised I was when he actually did and got everything resolved!

 

[bbsam]

Overall I don’t have a problem with the son having to run.

I do think the father should run with the son. Healthy is good for old and young.

 

[Catatonic]

I simply mean the no bullying culture is getting out of control.

Bullying is very natural throughout many species. There's a natural pecking order

You think it is fine because you were/are a bully?

 

[Catatonic]

Overall I don’t have a problem with the son having to run.

I do think the father should run with the son. Healthy is good for old and young.

I would have him push me to school in my rollator.

 

[Brownslave688]

My brother was bullied.

He could now buy the entire town we grew up in if he gave a crap about it.

Pecking order indeed.

There is very much a natural social pecking order.


The strong do not let it define them like your brother. The weak on the other hand.

 

[Brownslave688]

You think it is fine because you were/are a bully?

I was actually bullied a decent amount as a kid.

 

[Brownslave688]

I’m on the other side.

I gave my son permission to “take things into his own hands”.

He looked at me like I was crazy and said, “I’m not gonna be ineligible for soccer over that!” So I asked him if he wanted me to take it to the principal. He said, “Nah. I’ll do it.”

Imagine how surprised I was when he actually did and got everything resolved!

We were actually talking about this problem the other day.

Kids aren't allowed to take things into their own hands anymore. You can fight 30 miles away from school and they are gonna say you set it up at school so you're suspended.


When kids were allowed to throw a few blows they did that instead of shooting up schools

 

[watdaflock?]

A lot better to make your son run, than beating him.