The facts are that at some point people need to take responsibility for there actions and stop blaming someone else or a past happens for the way they behave... apparently you don't agree....
upsguy,
In a way I can agree.
Let me explain:
A father is fully responsible for his wife and his children. He needs to take this responsibility seriously.
A father is fully responsible to love, protect, serve them and teach them right from wrong. He needs to take this responsibility seriously.
A father is fully responsible to be faithful to his wife, to love and honor her. He is responsible to be willing to lay his life down for her.
This will show his boys what kind of husband to be and will show his girls what kind of husband to seek.
A father is responsible to be a blessing to his children by showing them how special of a creation they are.
A father is responsible to train his children to respect authority and live responsibly.
A father is responsible to confront evil influences in the family, seek justice, and to be merciful.
A father is responsible to be an example by treating others with kindness, respect and compassion.
A father is responsible to work diligently to provide for the need of his family.
A father should be an example by forgiving those who have wronged him and reconciling with those he has wronged.
A father should be an example by learning from his mistakes, admitting when he is wrong, and walking with Integrity as a man.
This all being said; I agree that at some point men and particularly fathers need to take responsibility for their actions and stop blaming someone else for the poor job they have done and the impact on a society this failure brings.
To your point I agree in this way:
When boys become men,and more so fathers, they need to forgive their fathers for their failures and move on in spite of them, not blaming them nor denying their failures.
Denying their failures seems to greatly improve the chaces of repeating the same poor patterns.
Men and father's are responsible to be real men and honorable fathers regardless of how they were raised, but fathers who have failed and helped cripple the next generation should not be judging the generation they have helped create.
Sincerely,
I