yep, bbsam and steve - I understand what you're saying. The girl I was speaking of has been telling me how uncomfy she was with some of the come-ons. I'm older even than her parents and mother-hennish enough I guess to try and share some wisdom. Wisdom that has come from many years of experience and some pain along the way.
I was actually not aware of the extent of our dirty building until just last week when the young man I spoke of said what he said and then the next day the little gal really opened up about the sexual stuff. The building's in turmoil and some cleaning house needs done.
Now's the time to keep mouth shut and make sure my side of the street remains clean. There's been much back-stabbing, favoritism and other shenanigans. Interestingly, there's a LOT of texting going on. Co-workers texting each other, sending pics and so forth. Management needs to step up and handle some of this and our union rep needs to crawl out from underneath the center manager's desk and stand up for what's right. oops, there went that mouth again.