Why do I feel guilty

Discussion in 'UPS Discussions' started by BUCN85, Dec 23, 2013.

  1. BUCN85

    BUCN85 Active Member

    My mother went into the hospital late Sunday. So I had to call off today( mon). And also tomorow. And being low guy on the totem pole I don't know y I feel so guilty for calling off
     
  2. 1BROWNWRENCH

    1BROWNWRENCH Amatuer Malthusian

    Yes, why DO you feel guilty? I wouldn't. You only have one mother.
     
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  3. raceanoncr

    raceanoncr Well-Known Member

    Are you S***ing me? You don't feel guilty about your mother. Sorry about the rant, here. And don't let THEM feel guilty about your mum also.

    You do what you have to do to help/take care of/save your mother.
     
  4. Johney

    Johney Raise your hand if you think Upstate is a D-Bag

    Don't.
     
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  5. BUCN85

    BUCN85 Active Member

    I guess this came out wrong. I just feel like now I'm on the :censored2: list. We all kno how they are
     
  6. Anonymous 10

    Anonymous 10 Guest

    You are a good guy. Your mom is very imports and you did what you needed to do. Don't look back. There are a lot of people in this world that don't have anybody who loves them. Be happy you have people in your life. You did the right thing as a man. I hope your mom is ok. Merry Christmas and God bless you and your family.
     
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  7. cosmo1

    cosmo1 Just another internet hooligan.

    Your bosses will get over it. Take care of your mother.
     
  8. Johney

    Johney Raise your hand if you think Upstate is a D-Bag

    Oh for sure you are. So what. Probably won't be the last time you're on their list. I'd bet all of us have been on it plenty of times.......well except one guy.
     
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  9. BUCN85

    BUCN85 Active Member

    True story. Oh well after Christmas I will be back on the pre-load and running air after. Thanks guys
    :censored2:ters full !Merry Xmas
     
  10. bill blutnach

    bill blutnach Member

    Perhaps you can deliver the hospital packages while you visit your sick mother? Otherwise worry not
     
  11. BUCN85

    BUCN85 Active Member

    Lol
     
  12. toonertoo

    toonertoo Most Awesome Dog Staff Member

    And if you are lucky enough to still have one, yes you did the right thing.
     
  13. anonymous6

    anonymous6 Guest

    50 years from now I don't think you'll be regretting calling off. you did the right thing. family ALWAYS comes first.
     
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  14. Thebrownstreak

    Thebrownstreak Active Member

    Don't ever feel guilty about not being "there" for UPS. You have priorities in life, UPS should never be the highest. Family always, I mean always, matters more. If you need to call in sick on the busiest day of the year, so be it. Don't let them make you feel guilty either. If they say anything to you, just tell them that UPS isn't as important as my family. If your supervisor has a problem with that, then he is a :censored2:ty human being. The work that you we not able to do for them got delivered non the less.

    Hope your mother is feeling better.
     
  15. Ouch

    Ouch Well-Known Member

    Don't get wrapped up in how you think you will be perceived by management. They would sale their own mother to make their numbers look good. You do whats right and concentrate on getting your mother well. You are absolutely doing the right thing. Prayers for all involved and for a speedy recovery.
     
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  16. Alexcross774

    Alexcross774 Spinning my wheels.

    Not all management thinks that way. Take care of your family, UPS will survive. Best wishes to you and your family.
     
  17. Indecisi0n

    Indecisi0n Well-Known Member

    Am I the only one who feels good when I screw UPS over. I figure what goes around comes around.