Made a sexual joke, got attacked, advice?

Discussion in 'UPS Discussions' started by Sadman101, Dec 10, 2019.

  1. Sadman101

    Sadman101 Member

    Made a very light sexual joke got assaulted by a guy, they fired him and want me to resign. They say they'd fire me if I don't resign. What do y'all think I should do?
     
    • Funny Funny x 4
    • Useful Useful x 1
    • List
    • Like Like x 1
    • Friendly Friendly x 1
    • List
  2. burrheadd

    burrheadd KING Of GIFS

    what’d ya say
     
  3. scooby0048

    scooby0048 This page left intentionally blank

    Couldn't have been too light a joke if it caused the guy to kick your ass. I would quit and keep your sexual innuendos to yourself in future jobs.
     
    • Agree Agree x 3
    • Winner Winner x 2
    • Like Like x 1
    • List
  4. Jackburton

    Jackburton Gone Fish'n

    Quit and follow your lifelong dream of becoming a comedian.
     
    • Funny Funny x 10
    • Winner Winner x 1
    • List
  5. Sadman101

    Sadman101 Member

    After days of buddy muddying with him for days, including many different sexual conversations with him and many other workers. He was looking at my ass for some reason and I very obviously joking said "you want my booty or something?"
    He flips, attacks me, him being 6'4" me 5'1". I subdue him(state champion wrestling and MMA experience) non violently and the supes get involved.
    He screamed about being raped as kid. We both made many sexual jokes back and forth. As do most the people where I work. He didnt kick my ass either, I just didn't hit him back but I stopped him from hitting me.
     
    • Funny Funny x 12
    • Informative Informative x 1
    • Creative Creative x 1
    • List
  6. burrheadd

    burrheadd KING Of GIFS

    any witness’s here what you said
     
  7. Sadman101

    Sadman101 Member

    a passing supervisor. All of our stories are the same.
     
  8. UpstateNYUPSer

    UpstateNYUPSer Well-Known Member

    Do not resign.

    They are not going to fire you.

    They will bring the other guy back shortly.

    Know your audience.

    (I will admit that I didn't take offense with what you said----I thought it was funny.)
     
    • Agree Agree x 2
    • Winner Winner x 2
    • Like Like x 1
    • Informative Informative x 1
    • List
  9. Staydryitsraining

    Staydryitsraining Well-Known Member

    Get a life
     
  10. 542thruNthru

    542thruNthru Well-Known Member

    Don't resign. Make UPS fire you and go through the grievance process.

    They want you to resign because they don't think they have a slam dunk case.
     
    • Agree Agree x 7
    • Winner Winner x 4
    • Like Like x 3
    • List
  11. sailfish

    sailfish Duke of Doúchebaggery

    Damn, dude. That sucks. I had all kinds of good jokes. Especially when I was on preload unloading trailers with someone. Obviously they weren't the kind you tell someone the first time you meet them 'cause they'd probably call the cops but no one got offended and we all had a good time.
     
  12. sailfish

    sailfish Duke of Doúchebaggery

    Hell, there were even a few who we'd greet each other before PCM by sneaking up on the other and grabbing their ass.
     
  13. Justaloader

    Justaloader Active Member

    Not touching that one.
     
  14. sailfish

    sailfish Duke of Doúchebaggery

    As soon as he started coming you should've said "it's just a prank, bro" and ran for your life.
     
  15. Justaloader

    Justaloader Active Member

    If it were me, I would have punched you for saying "bro".
     
    • Funny Funny x 4
    • Winner Winner x 1
    • List
  16. Integrity

    Integrity Binge Poster

    I would definitely not resign.
     
  17. Jkloc420

    Jkloc420 Well-Known Member

    your only 5"1"
     
  18. Sadman101

    Sadman101 Member

    The labor director basically screamed at me to give him my badge and leave and be fired for sexual harrassment or resign after I asked for a day to think. Shop steward saw the whole thing and calmed him down. I ended up resigning because he was basically forcing me out anyway. And he said if I didn't we would fire me in a week and refuse to give me work until then. The shop steward agreed with him for some reason.

    Says the guy :censored2: talking in the internet lol. Thank you! I'll take your wise advice.



    I wish I knew this earlier. The labor director there essentially screamed me into signing it. And the shop steward agreed that I should sign a resignation.
     
  19. Indecisi0n

    Indecisi0n Well-Known Member

    Is the violence really necessary brah?