Divorce benefits

[UpstateNYUPSer(Ret)]

If you get them to protect your assets, two spouses RARELY bring equal resources to the table. So yeah. You're gonna get divorce raped.

Assets held before the marriage are generally secure.

 

[sailfish]

Assets held before the marriage are generally secure.

Not secure enough.

 

[Tom MacDonald]

Shhhh......the grownups are talking.

Respect the stain brah

 

[sailfish]

Well every story is certainly different. Number one I don't plan on getting divorced. Bit my wife sacrificed her future earnings to have a family and she does not deserve to be poor because of it

In dookie's instance she doesn't deserve . Give the dad custody, hold her accountable, and let her sort it out on her own.

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

In dookie's instance she doesn't deserve . Give the dad custody, hold her accountable, and let her sort it out on her own.

Always more than one side of the story

 

[PT Crazy]

Seems like people make up stories to post on Browncafe. If it is real.....what a dummy...should lose everything!

 

[sailfish]

Seems like people make up stories to post on Browncafe. If it is real.....what a dummy...should lose everything!

Everything? Maybe not. But since he is the in this particular instance, it's hard for me to feel so sorry for him. Does he deserve to probably never see his kids now or lose the house? No. They (he and his wife) need to suffer eachother's presence and figure it out on their own.

 

[lol_at_ss290]

Had to make an account just to comment on this because he showed me this post I think hoping to earn brownie points. There's a lot he left out but cheating is not the worst thing he has done. Not by a long shot. He's lucky I have chosen to skip the lawyers and go through mediation and that I don't tell you guys everything. I'm not trying to take him to the cleaners either. I am not selfish. I just want to go back to school and get my life back on track.

 

[over9five]

Had to make an account just to comment on this because he showed me this post I think hoping to earn brownie points. There's a lot he left out but cheating is not the worst thing he has done. Not by a long shot. He's lucky I have chosen to skip the lawyers and go through mediation and that I don't tell you guys everything. I'm not trying to take him to the cleaners either. I am not selfish. I just want to go back to school and get my life back on track.

No chance of reconciliation?

 

[lol_at_ss290]

Had to make an account just to comment on this because he showed me this post I think hoping to earn brownie points. There's a lot he left out but cheating is not the worst thing he has done. Not by a long shot. He's lucky I have chosen to skip the lawyers and go through mediation and that I don't tell you guys everything. I'm not trying to take him to the cleaners either. I am not selfish. I just want to go back to school and get my life back on track.

No chance of reconciliation?

God no.

 

[over9five]

God no.

How are the kids doing?

 

[burrheadd]

Had to make an account just to comment on this because he showed me this post I think hoping to earn brownie points. There's a lot he left out but cheating is not the worst thing he has done. Not by a long shot. He's lucky I have chosen to skip the lawyers and go through mediation and that I don't tell you guys everything. I'm not trying to take him to the cleaners either. I am not selfish. I just want to go back to school and get my life back on track.

You go girl!!

 

[burrheadd]

God no.

Let’s have all the sordid details

Come on now don’t leave us hanging

 

[lol_at_ss290]

God no.

How are the kids doing?

We haven't even discussed it yet with them. Ones in first grade the other is only 3.5. I want to give them one more good Christmas and do as much preparation as possible before talking to them. They are the only reason I tried..

 

[burrheadd]

Just how big of an Ol gal are ya

 

[lol_at_ss290]

Just how big of an Ol gal are ya

I weigh in at a buck twenty.

 

[lol_at_ss290]

Just how big of an Ol gal are ya

Just how big of an Ol gal are ya

I weigh in at a buck twenty.

lol

 

[burrheadd]

lol

If you still have most of your teeth

We are good to go

 

[Box Ox]

This thread is now officially badass. Might even run out for some beer and snacks.

 

[Over 70]

Had to make an account just to comment on this because he showed me this post I think hoping to earn brownie points. There's a lot he left out but cheating is not the worst thing he has done. Not by a long shot. He's lucky I have chosen to skip the lawyers and go through mediation and that I don't tell you guys everything. I'm not trying to take him to the cleaners either. I am not selfish. I just want to go back to school and get my life back on track.