So I screwed up. Big time. I cheated on my wife with a woman I met on my route. My wife gave up her career to stay home with the kids when I got full time, shortly before our youngest was born. It's been 3 and a half years since she worked and due to the nature of her work she would need a lot of retraining. She tried for over 6 months to make it work but she said she just can't do it anymore. I feel like I ruined everything for her and the kids. I know I can keep the kids on my insurance but one of the biggest things I worry about is making sure she is still going to have insurance too. She also made sure we were putting as much money into my 401ks as possible and gave up a lot of luxuriesshe enjoyed, she never gets her nails done, did all of our haircuts, never cared about gifts or going out, and was just happy to live simple, so that we could have a healthy retirement fund. Is it possible for me to give her part of the retirement savings or my pension? Can I keep her on the insurance? I just want to do right by her in this divorce. We live in Massachusetts if that makes a difference.