G.V. Rush
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I recommend marriage counseling. That’s what I did and it saved my marriage. Granted neither of us ever cheated. My advice to you would be to try your hardest to stay married. It’s worth it. For you, for your wife, and especially the kids.
Here in California, shed get all 401k, percentage of pension, and spousal support for the rest of your life. Not to mention alimony and child support. Just be glad you didn’t marry in CA. Either way you’re screwed if you can’t patch things up.Never understood why a woman who doesn't work gets the 401k...the house...custody of the kids...and half of everything else...must be that white male privilege everyone talks about.
I recommend marriage counseling. That’s what I did and it saved my marriage. Granted neither of us ever cheated. My advice to you would be to try your hardest to stay married. It’s worth it. For you, for your wife, and especially the kids.