But as you can see exceptions are made.
A mistake is not an exception. There is a big difference. For LTFedExer, the manager made an error. Whether that was intentional or not I do not know but it wasn't an exception.
One was made for a courier here who wasn't eligible to apply.
Ok, what was the exception and why was it made?
And funny thing about mgrs being evasive. If they've done things in the past that caused you to go to HR or even file a GFT you get to the point that you don't trust them or the process.
I agree to a point on this. If a manager makes a mistake (they are human after all) or even just uses poor judgment, and you are treated in such a way that you feel you need to file a GFT, that's what the GFT is there for. If a manager continually makes decisions that cause an employee or employees to continually go to HR or file GFT's, that's going to get the manager some extra attention. Doesn't mean the manager is wrong or right, just that something is obviously going on. It could be poor management by this manager or it could be poor management by a previous manager that this one is now trying to correct. I've seen both situations.
A mgr who tells me that he did ask HR if I could withdraw from a position but doesn't know what the penalty is for doing so in hindsight does appear to be evasive, especially considering other things done and what others had reported.
Maybe, but the manager has got nothing to lose by being open and honest with you. You had already made up your mind you weren't taking the job so it's kind of irrelevant about what the penalty is. Put another way, what does he gain by not telling you? What does he lose by telling you?
The week my warning letter was to go off last Sept I asked since warning letter expired that Friday would I be able to apply for a job I wanted that Friday. He said he would ask HR and later sent me a msg saying that I could apply. That Friday JCATS wouldn't let me apply, was able to the next day but position I wanted was gone. I asked him why did HR say I could but I couldn't, he then admitted he hadn't asked HR but just assumed I could. It's stuff like this that makes me think that all is rigged and I'm being screwed with.
But you weren't being screwed with. Your manager was a jerk for not getting you an answer but the answer wouldn't have changed the outcome and just as importantly, the outcome would have been the same for any employee doing what you were trying to do. You may not like it but at least it is fair and consistent.
You can point at policy all you want, and certainly knowing what policy states I'm now better informed. But you aren't allowing for the human element, the behind the scenes machinations.
Actually I am. I'm very well aware of what can happen behind the scenes. That's why I try to be as well versed as I can about policy.
I was using hyperbole about the spitting, but you want to put the responsibility 100% on me, but as I've said, you aren't here, don't know the things that have happened here. A cookie cutter one size fits all sounds great but rarely works perfect in practice.
Well in this case, it is 100% on you. If it isn't, then who made you put in for the position and who made the decision for you not to accept it? As for things being cookie cutter, I never said they should be. There is often going to be an element of individual consideration. The problem is that there is a very fine line between individual consideration and favoritism. In this particular case, the policy is very clear and to allow you to put in for other jobs after withdrawing from a signed offer letter, would need to have some very extenuating circumstances. Wanting to be closer to your family isn't extenuating. Many, many people, myself included, want to be closer to family.
And by the way, congrats on getting your time in and your high pay and full pension. Those of us who are working for much less see things differently than you, with good cause.
It is what it is. I was in the right place at the right time. Do you go around congratulating those people who were in the right place at the right time to buy Microsoft or Google or Yahoo or Dell stock? Unfortunately, I wasn't one of them so who do I blame for that?