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Bring on the Sunshine!

Thanks,
Buffy!!!

First of all...DO NOT RESIGN! I think you know that already.
With all due respect, Race, this may be bad advice. If Buffy has been asked to resign six times, there may be a good reason for it. Is there a story behind this termination? -Rocky
There may be more story, Rocky, but from what I remember (don't want to archive this) she's got a potty mouth (I love it when a woman talks dirty to me) or was accused of racism or something else the company just loves to jump on these days. It's a blanket excuse to get rid of an "undesirable".
In my experience, and the reason I gave this advice, I have found that if the company has ANY doubt in their case, they will try to shame the employee into resigning so the monkey's off their back.
I have been to many a hearing (about my favorite subject...ME!!!), where I knew it was a slam dunk but was deadlocked locally and the state level because they were just so arrogant and stubborn they didn't want to admit defeat. I have won many at the national arbitration with rulings that made local look small potatoes (or is that POTOTOS?). I was also told that resignation may be a viable alternative for me to save face. Well, guess what? I'm still here (with more grievance $ in my pocket) and most of THEM ain't!
Yeah, maybe we better hear more details tho.
Tie she was fired for HARASSMENT. Its only harassment if she has been talked to in the past for Harassing, a one time blurp is not a case of harassment. The company has not shown an attempt to correct her behavior, so unless theres more to the story she will be back with back pay, usually (back pay).Make the call?
Number one what you did was wrong. Yes its BS if the person complaining is the way you describe. And getting witnesses to testify to the way that person acts would help your case but you're still wrong in todays overly sensitive to race issues world. The rules are you can't speak that way. Period. You can call it BS , make a good case that you were not treated fairly but if your stupid enough to use that language at work then you are risking your job.
If the company really dislikes you as you allude and wanted to fire you then you were stupid to play into their hands by giving them something like this which generally does not sound good in front of a panel when you are fighting for your job.
Did the company take advantage of a situation that came up to fire someone they did not like. Its very likely.
Did the company pay the complaintent so they could take you out absolutely not.
Were you wrong to use that kind of language at work. Yes you were.
Thats my call. And you won't find it in any company literature.
Tie she was fired for HARASSMENT. Its only harassment if she has been talked to in the past for Harassing, a one time blurp is not a case of harassment. The company has not shown an attempt to correct her behavior, so unless theres more to the story she will be back with back pay, usually (back pay).
Tie if she happens to be black does it make a difference?
Your right tie, but we dont operate a day care! People work hard and at times are over pushed and explode, thats not the definition of harrasment its worthy of progresive corrective behavior not a termination.Red I don't make the rules I just try to avoid the mines in the minefield.
Your right tie, but we dont operate a day care! People work hard and at times are over pushed and explode, thats not the definition of harrasment its worthy of progresive corrective behavior not a termination.
Your right, but were did you come up with that list of harassing situations? Unless the company documents and shows an attempt at correcting the behavior and situation, there is no harassment. the company feels like if they fire it shows the person that it wont be tolerated which in itself is form of harassment. 2 wrongs wont make a right. No one wins in these cases, the union sux for getting the person back, while both parties feel like a victim.I've had the opportunity to deal with harrassment at UPS. Quite often employees think "sexual harrassment" is the only type that is not acceptable. Any time an employee feels UNCOMFORTABLE in the workplace, it can be construed as harrassment. More often than not, the employee was terminated from UPS.
I have also seen other types of discipline, from suspensions with no back pay, to management not getting a stock award or a pay increase.
There can also be legal issues for both UPS and the employee.
Respect in the workplace by all UPS employees would eliminate these types of situations.
Types of harassments
- Bullying
Harassment that can occur on the playground, school, in the workforce or any other place. Usually physical and psychological harassing behavior perpetrated against an individual, by one or more persons.- Psychological harassment
This is humiliating or abusive behavior that lowers a person’s self-esteem or causes them torment. This can take the form of verbal comments, actions or gestures. Falling into this category is workplace mobbing.- Racial harassment
The targeting of an individual because of their race or ethnicity. The harassment's include words, deeds, and actions, that are specifically designed to make the target feel degraded due to their race of origin or ethnicity.- Religious harassment
Verbal, psychological or physical harassment's used against targets because they choose to practice a specific religion. Religious harassment can also include forced and involuntary conversions.- Sexual harassment
Harassment that can happen anywhere but is most common in the workplace, and schools. It involves unwanted and unwelcome, words, deeds, actions, gestures, symbols, or behaviors of a sexual nature that make the target feel uncomfortable. Gender and sexual orientation harassment fall into this family.- Stalking
The unauthorized following and surveillance of an individual, to the extent that the persons privacy is unacceptably intruded upon, and the victim fears for their safety.- Mobbing
Violence committed directly or indirectly by a loosely affiliated and organized group of individuals to punish or even execute a person for some alleged offense without a lawful trial. The 'offense' can range from a serious crime like murder or simple expression of ethnic, cultural, or religious attitudes. The issue of the victim's actual guilt or innocence is often irrelevant to the mob, since the mob relies on contentions that are unverifiable, unsubstantiated, or completely fabricated.- Hazing
To persecute, harass, or torture in a deliberate, calculated, planned, manner. Typically the targeted individual is a subordinate, for example, a fraternity pledge, a first-year military cadet, or somebody who is considered 'inferior' or an 'outsider'. Hazing is illegal in many instances.- Backlash
Backlash or 'victim blaming' occurs when the harasser or other people in the environment blame the victim for the harassment, or the resulting controversies and conflicts after the harassment is reported or discovered. Backlash results when people erroneously believe the victim could stop the harassment if they really tried, or that the victim must have done something to cause the harassment. The victim may be accused of trying to get attention, covering for incompetence, or in cases where the harassment is proven, lying about the extent of the effects. "Old school" attitudes about certain kinds of harassment remain and there are in many circumstances social pressure for victims to "keep their mouths shut" about abuse or suffer the consequences.
Make the call?
Number one what you did was wrong. Yes its BS if the person complaining is the way you describe. And getting witnesses to testify to the way that person acts would help your case but you're still wrong in todays overly sensitive to race issues world. The rules are you can't speak that way. Period. You can call it BS , make a good case that you were not treated fairly but if your stupid enough to use that language at work then you are risking your job.
If the company really dislikes you as you allude and wanted to fire you then you were stupid to play into their hands by giving them something like this which generally does not sound good in front of a panel when you are fighting for your job.
Did the company take advantage of a situation that came up to fire someone they did not like. Its very likely.
Did the company pay the complaintent so they could take you out absolutely not.
Were you wrong to use that kind of language at work. Yes you were.
Thats my call. And you won't find it in any company literature.[/quote
Boy Tieguy..you really know how to make a girl feel good! What do you think I am an idiot?
Of course I know it was wrong to use that language, what I am saying is everyone in the hub is allowed to use this kind of language without discipline of any kind and now all of a sudden after 4 years of employment I am being singled out for it.
And yes I believe the company ran with this comment...I live where there is 95% whites, rural community. The supervisor on duty overheard two other employees saying the same phrases and comments I did and they didn't get disciplined.
I do know there is all sorts of Harrasment.
Thanks for the list Channahon!
Thanks for the comments Red we all work hard at UPS...and under paid in my book. UPS should feel lucky that they aren't paying LUMPERS to unload their trailers like the rest of the freight companies in this nation. Other wise they would be broke! (LUMPERS make $150-$500 per trailer unload!)
Tie, why do you think I should have to settle for anything? Do you settle for things this important in your life?
Thats my comments and I am sticking to them!
Buffy!!!![]()
Make the call?
Tie, why do you think I should have to settle for anything? Do you settle for things this important in your life?
Thats my comments and I am sticking to them!
Buffy!!!![]()
I don't think you will have a choice. You go in front of the Arbitrator with that expression you won't get back pay and you will be lucky to get your job back.
Feel free to risk it all. But I think you're looking at a loser if you do.
Its time to eat some crow and I don't think you realize it and I don't know think you're recieving good counsel on this subject if you honestly believe you can go into a panel hearing and walk out unscathed much less with back pay.
Now I'm the a-hole management person telling you what is the safe play while everyone else is egging you to jump.
If you also feel your a target for management then I think you ought to sit down and think about whether its worth what you are going through now.
Of course I know it was wrong to use that language, what I am saying is everyone in the hub is allowed to use this kind of language without discipline of any kind and now all of a sudden after 4 years of employment I am being singled out for it.
I believe then term you can use is 'selective inforcement'. If everybody does it , then way are you the one getting the fall for it.
And for the record, why are you talking like that anyway? I meet up with a driver on route once that was swearing like a drunken sailor in front of a custom to the point where I was embarrassed. Don't get me wrong....I don't bleed brown, but show a little professionalism for petes sake.