Life After Brown Not So Happy, but ....

[JD1988]

I divorced my UPS man today .... not my choice. The Company "screwed" him over, in his opinion, and thus, the marriage was taken down by brick and mortar. Now I remind other dedicated UPSers to balance their lives carefully to avoid having to begin life over again after 29 years of marriage and being witness to the destruction of a good man.

 

[Operational needs]

So he chose to divorce YOU?

 

[burrheadd]

I divorced my UPS man today .... not my choice. The Company "screwed" him over, in his opinion, and thus, the marriage was taken down by brick and mortar. Now I remind other dedicated UPSers to balance their lives carefully to avoid having to begin life over again after 29 years of marriage and being witness to the destruction of a good man.

Woah!! That’s deep

 

[JD1988]

Yes, he decided I was to blame for it all...very sad. Thank you for the inspiration to pick up my sword and moving on...I've been working on that for the ten years of check I have been thru with this man.

 

[BakerMayfield2018]

Yes, he decided I was to blame for it all...very sad. Thank you for the inspiration to pick up my sword and moving on...I've been working on that for the ten years of check I have been thru with this man.

 

[burrheadd]

Yes, he decided I was to blame for it all...very sad. Thank you for the inspiration to pick up my sword and moving on...I've been working on that for the ten years of check I have been thru with this man.

Look on the bright side you get half his pension and whatever else your lawyer can finagle

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

Yes, he decided I was to blame for it all...very sad. Thank you for the inspiration to pick up my sword and moving on...I've been working on that for the ten years of check I have been thru with this man.

That's a crock of .

 

[Brownslave688]

Probably found a newer model on route.

 

[JD1988]

Absolutely, 50% of everything....but I wanted to retire with the partner I love. It's God's way of moving me on....I just wish I had taken the hint sooner.

 

[Brownslave688]

Absolutely, 50% of everything....but I wanted to retire with the partner I love. It's God's way of moving me on....I just wish I had taken the hint sooner.

Life's short. It ain't worth being miserable just because something is comfortable. I'm sure you'll look back eventually and consider it a blessing.

 

[rod]

Buy yourself a Harley and hit the road for awhile.

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

Life's short. It ain't worth being miserable just because something is comfortable. I'm sure you'll look back eventually and consider it a blessing.

29 years later???
Seriously...

 

[Brownslave688]

29 years later???
Seriously...

Lots of miserable people stay together because of kids or financial situations or just scared to leave.

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

Lots of miserable people stay together because of kids or financial situations or just scared to leave.

Can't blame UPS 29 years later. Now she is talking half.. I have less heart and sympathy than you do in this matter.

 

[Brownslave688]

Can't blame UPS 29 years later. Now she is talking half.. I have less heart and sympathy than you do in this matter.

No I get what you're saying. Yeah blaming ups is idiotic.

 

[cosmo1]

Sad but true. I squandered
all that good pay and after 36 years I was forced out--now all I do is drink, watch sports, and try to pretend I'm not married so I don't have to share any of my lousy retirement money with anyone. No matter what road you choose, invest in family first and always and never look back at what could have been.

I was forced out after 36 years....I wasn't ready. I learned my narcissistic ways from the company, resulting in a bad marriage, no friends, family dying off, and only brandy, sports bars, cigarettes and numerous doctors office visits to entertain me. Whichever way you go out, make the best of it and live.

Does anyone have any "updates" on division of my UPS retirement and 401K and stock options in divorce. How about benefits awarded to ex-spouse. What percentage will I have to share!?? I have 37 years in and was forced out nine years ago (management position). Decided to divorce before 10-year deal expires next year.

Bologna.

 

[Returntosender]

Bologna.

Wow

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

No I get what you're saying. Yeah blaming ups is idiotic.

The hours and stress of this job doesn't make it easy sometimes .

 

[Indecisi0n]

Absolutely, 50% of everything....but I wanted to retire with the partner I love. It's God's way of moving me on....I just wish I had taken the hint sooner.

I can put a good word in for you with God if you want me too? We play call of duty together.

 

[oldngray]