Only radical Islam believes in killing to force their belief system upon you. Yes, terrorism is a bad deal all around. You don't hate gays, but you subscribe to a faith that hates them, so where does that leave you? Christians like to pretend it's a choice to be gay or the result of some long ago sin in the family tree. This is the essence of conversion therapy BTW, as in you choose to be gay, not that you're born that way.
Sounds pretty hateful to me that you'd force someone to be something they're not so they live on your moral terms. How many gay people live their lives in the closet just so their church or family don't come down on them like a ton of bricks?
The father of kidnap victim Elizabeth just came out recently in a very courageous way. He didn't want to be kicked out of the Mormon Church, but he was not going to continue living his life as a lie.