Wife and I just bought a house here in Southeastern Pennsylvania. Paid 380k. You may think - 380k, how the hell? You have to figure in location, cost of living, and a whole host of other factors. You can't just look at the cost of the house alone. We bought the house in August of 2018 (this is the 2nd house we've owned. First one we bought for 165k, lived in it 7 years, and sold it for 190k - broke even as we put about 35 grand into the house). The interesting part - any house we looked at under 300k needed work. By "work", I mean - new roof, or was in needed of renovations due to being "dated", had basement water issues, needed a new septic or well, etc. The list went on and on. We didn't want to spend 380 as that was at the very top of our budget, but I didn't want to spend 300k on a house and then have to go into a crap load of debt updating / fixing / replacing things either. We wanted a move in ready house that wouldn't require work for at least 10 years.
That said, I work 2 jobs, and she works as well. During the day I'm an Insurance Specialist (I handle Auto and General Liability claims for a telecommunications company - Unitek Global Services), and during the evenings I work the twilight shift at UPS. She is an admin assistant at financial planning company (Ameriprise). We aren't living in the lap of luxury, but, we don't have to decide if we want to pay the mortgage this month, or keep the lights on and eat instead.
I work two jobs because my wife and I like the nicer things in life. Fine wine tastes, water budget would be accurate. However, I have a 5 year old daughter and a son who will be arriving in February, and I want to be able to give them opportunities to do well in life. Hence my saving for my daughter's wedding (should she choose to marry), both college educations (should they choose to go - their college may not be paid in full, but they will have a decent head start), and money set aside for when "life" happens (cancer runs in both my and my wife's families....and a "rainy day" fund will, more than likely, be needed as I get older).