Funny,I was in this situation a few years back.XXX video and adult toy store w/preview booths,it wasn't the owner but rather a frequent customer.The lady who ran the place had pre-warned me of the infatuation and I did my best to avoid any contact.But he eventually followed me out to my truck and asked if I wanted to take a little break,preview a movie with him(he said it would be worth my time! Ha Ha) Anyway, I let him down gently.Most at the hub got a good laugh out of it,but there were a few of our more distinguished rednecks that did not find it amusing.If you get in this situation regardless of your feelings on the subject, why would you be mean or rude and risk your job? While I worked part-time UPS I also worked for an electronics company installing phone systems,alarms etc.,after a few weeks working I figured out the owner was gay.He never made any advances and was by far the best guy I ever worked for!