At this point they will tell you anything to convince you to take the job. But once you start they have you by the gonads and they forget all the promises they made to get you in that door and on the belt.
Yep that's what I expected. Thank you for that input.
And for the record Just Tired I'm not a kid, I just happen to have stepped out of a job where management didn't want to own your body and soul and they actually understood that work simply cannot come before every single one of life's little uprisings. After looking round on this forum for a couple of days I'm thinking of turning the job down if it does come my way as I don't want to risk ending up as bitter and twisted as a lot of folks (obviously not all) on this board.